This week on Talk the Walk, Alan and I riff on quittingâfiring clients, pausing projects, and stopping things that technically âworkâ but donât work for you anymore. We dig into ego, sunk-cost traps, scope creep, and how to communicate a graceful stop without burning bridges. Alan shares a simple pre-flight test to help you avoid quitting later by deciding smarter upfront.
In this episode
⢠Why âdonât be a quitterâ is terrible advice for grown-ups with goals
⢠Alanâs 5 When-Not-to-Start filters (my new decision cheat sheet)
⢠Preventing scope creep with pragmatic curiosity (ask before you say yes)
⢠Temporary quits, partial quits, and getting help to stop
⢠Feedback without pity: choosing truth-tellers and being one
⢠Sunk costs vs. smart experiments (market first, build later)
⢠How to cancel or pause publicly without drama (and keep goodwill)
⢠What consultants should quit immediately (hello, time-sink social!)
⢠Raising value before raising fees (Peloton did this well)
⢠The monkey bars analogy: you canât reach out unless you let goMy takeaways
⢠Ask a better first question: not âCan I help?â (always yes), but âWhatâs in it for meâlearning, growth, low labor, fair revenue?â
⢠Five red flags = donât start: low interest, little learning, no growth path, poor revenue, excessive labor.
⢠Curiosity saves you later: clarify sites, scope, timelines, decision rights before you commit.
⢠Quitting can be temporary: pausing â failing. Partial stops count.
⢠Truth ďź cheerleading: select 2â3 people whoâve proven theyâll tell you the truth.
⢠Market â then make: sell the outcome, then build the content once you have critical mass.
⢠Value drives fees: explain the added value before you adjust price.Favorite moments & quotables
⢠âIf you never let go, youâll never reach out.â (Monkey bars!)
⢠âItâs better to ask when not to start than wonder when to stop.â
⢠âThe way to be successful isnât to raise feesâitâs to raise value.â
⢠âBe empathetic with feedback, never pitying.âTiny scripts you can steal
⢠After you blurted âyesâ: âOn reflection, Iâm not the right person for you. I can suggest the kind of expert whoâd be a better fit.â
⢠Cancelling with class: âWe donât have critical mass for the learning dynamic. I wonât waste your timeâIâll let you know if we reschedule.âShout-outs & references
⢠Hugh Jackman (Alanâs NYC weekend plans!)
⢠Pelotonâs price-rise email framed through added value
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